Tu-Anh Love
~ Goddess Energy ~
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Copa: Where are you from?
Tu-Anh: I was born in Nha Trang, Vietnam and I was born into a very strict and religious Catholic family full of nuns and priests and French Military influences. 
Tu-Anh's Mom & Dad
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Map of Vietnam
Copa: At what time did you discover your 'Goddess Energy?'
Tu-Anh: I would say 7 or 8th grade when I was introduced to Greek and Roman Mythology in school. That was when the obsession began. I read every single story and myth of the Greeks and Roman Gods and Goddesses even though I was still learning how to read, write and speak English. The Goddess that rules my birth chart that I resonated with was (Aphrodite (Greek) Venus (Roman). When I read about that Goddess in my teens I felt like it was me, and as I grew into a young lady and then a young woman, that energy became a part of me. But really it was over 15 years ago as I stepped into my own true spiritual growth that I then fearlessly started to allow my inner Love Goddess to awaken and rise up to become the true Sacred loving feminine that I was meant to be. |
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Copa: In your honest opinion, why can't most women be honest with men about how they feel about their sensuality?
Tu-Anh: I don’t know, may be fear of being judged and criticized, or fear of being rejected, neglected or abandon? But me and men, I am usually very upfront in the beginning, I speak my mind and usually and most often ask for what I want, so only the very confident male can handle my energy and the other men say “You are too much” lol Copa: Do you feel that 'opening up' with your partner will help a relationship last and why?
Tu-Anh: Of course! A long time loyal client of mine, Steven Gaffney, Author, Speaker, Leadership advisor and Expert on honest communication shared “In the absence of data, people make things up.” Silence rewards current behavior.” So if you don’t open up and share how you feel and speak your mind, how will another know what to do to improve the relationship or solve a problem in the relationship? In the bedroom life, it is even more important to be open and tell your partner what your fantasies and desires are so that you can fulfill and pleasure each other instead of them going elsewhere. 
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Copa: Why is it extremely important for one to clearly understand what makes them happy and not let anyone interfere with that happiness?
Tu-Anh: I am the oldest girl, not the oldest child. In the Vietnamese culture, there is a lot of pressure on the oldest girl. She is a role model for her younger siblings, the giver, the lover, the leader, the caretaker, the healer, the nurturer, at times even the protector and the one that others go to for love and comfort, like a mother. She sacrifices her own happiness for those she loves and those who are less fortunate. She was told by her feminine family members to dim her light so others can shine and to be humble so that she does not spark jealousy in others. And being raised very Catholic did not help much either. I only knew what I knew and what I saw as modeled behavior and experiences shared by others. For example, I did not eat until my younger sisters were fed and bathed and then my older brothers and parents ate as I was the one that did all the cooking, cleaning, and making sure everyone did their part and the house was in order since my parents worked multiple jobs and were rarely home. Copa: Does every man have an inner 'Titan?' If not, why should he?
Tu-Anh: I believe so, but not every man owns it naturally. It can be taught and trained, but the man has to be open to going outside of his comfort zone, be challenged, and to be pushed and be taught. Most men today are weaker than I emotionally and at times, physically lol. In my opinion and personal experience, the ones with “Dog energy” are much more fun to train, teach and support. They have more masculine energy and their testosterone level is higher and they are driven by actions and results. They want to grow, to be better to please and be of service. 
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Copa: What good advice would you give to men on communicating more clearly their inner message to women on their first date?
Tu-Anh: A man is only worth 3 things…His words, his actions, and his decisions. That is how I decide on the type of men I want in my life professionally and personally. Women in general may not admit it, but deep down inside, they want to be around fearless warrior-type men who are bold, confident and who speaks their truth and are not pleasers. I respect a man much more and am attracted to him much more when he is straight forward and he cares very little about what others think of him. I am usually attracted to Fighter, Leader, and Beasts, Titans and Warrior type men. I feel safer around them and I can be in my feminine energy freely. Men who are too much of a lover energy turns me off.
Tu-Anh: A man is only worth 3 things…His words, his actions, and his decisions. That is how I decide on the type of men I want in my life professionally and personally. Women in general may not admit it, but deep down inside, they want to be around fearless warrior-type men who are bold, confident and who speaks their truth and are not pleasers. I respect a man much more and am attracted to him much more when he is straight forward and he cares very little about what others think of him. I am usually attracted to Fighter, Leader, and Beasts, Titans and Warrior type men. I feel safer around them and I can be in my feminine energy freely. Men who are too much of a lover energy turns me off.
Copa: Why don’t more women express themselves more honestly about what they really want from men?
Tu-Anh: Because they are like cats! Lol!
If you have experienced having a cat in your life, you will know what I mean. But I do believe most women today do not know what they want in a man and are confused because most often they are driven by emotions and logic rather than allowing their hearts to guide them in love. I also do believe though that when a woman knows her worth and also feels safe around a man and his awakened masculine energy, she will be more likely to be honest with him and share her wants, needs and desires and even allow herself to feel vulnerable around him without fear.
Tu-Anh: Because they are like cats! Lol!
If you have experienced having a cat in your life, you will know what I mean. But I do believe most women today do not know what they want in a man and are confused because most often they are driven by emotions and logic rather than allowing their hearts to guide them in love. I also do believe though that when a woman knows her worth and also feels safe around a man and his awakened masculine energy, she will be more likely to be honest with him and share her wants, needs and desires and even allow herself to feel vulnerable around him without fear.
Copa: How important is sex in a relationship to you?
Tu-Anh: To me sex is the most important thing in a romantic relationship and then open and honest truthful communication. Sex is life force. It is spiritual energy and is very powerful when shared between two people who are madly in love with each other. It bonds them even closer together and in my opinion, if your relationship is a true soulmate relationship, it only gets better over time. It will keep you forever young and keeps you happy. Whenever I am working with a married client who seems to be tired and lifeless, I ask them, how much sex are you having? You do not want to know the answer to that. Lol And if they are single, I ask them, how much time do you make for self-love daily?
Tu-Anh: To me sex is the most important thing in a romantic relationship and then open and honest truthful communication. Sex is life force. It is spiritual energy and is very powerful when shared between two people who are madly in love with each other. It bonds them even closer together and in my opinion, if your relationship is a true soulmate relationship, it only gets better over time. It will keep you forever young and keeps you happy. Whenever I am working with a married client who seems to be tired and lifeless, I ask them, how much sex are you having? You do not want to know the answer to that. Lol And if they are single, I ask them, how much time do you make for self-love daily?
Copa: So, what are you focusing on these days in your life and your work?
Tu-Anh: These days, I am only focusing on helping men who are already owning their masculine confidence at an 8+ to become more polished in the Fashion and wellness department, especially American men. I do not know why they don’t pay much attention to fitness and appearance when it comes to dressing to impress or dressing to succeed. You only have one chance to make a first impression. So make it count and especially in dating, I would never go out with a man who is out of shape or is poorly dressed because it shows that he does not take care of himself and I might become a fixer in the relationship if I date him. I do not want to have a project to polish outside of my work…lol
Tu-Anh: These days, I am only focusing on helping men who are already owning their masculine confidence at an 8+ to become more polished in the Fashion and wellness department, especially American men. I do not know why they don’t pay much attention to fitness and appearance when it comes to dressing to impress or dressing to succeed. You only have one chance to make a first impression. So make it count and especially in dating, I would never go out with a man who is out of shape or is poorly dressed because it shows that he does not take care of himself and I might become a fixer in the relationship if I date him. I do not want to have a project to polish outside of my work…lol
Copa: So, how does one schedule a private image consultation with you?
Tu-Anh: It’s easy. They can go to tuanh.jhilburn.com and send me a personal message there to begin.
Tu-Anh: It’s easy. They can go to tuanh.jhilburn.com and send me a personal message there to begin.
